Jeremiah's oldest son, Jeremiah, Jr. stayed in Old
Saybrook and married Mary (Polly) Hayden October 21
1795 at the age of 29. Mary was born in 1771 in Old
Saybrook and died there at the age of 68 November 17,
1838. Jeremiah, Jr. died October 9, 1855 at the age
of 89. Cause of death - old age and fever. The Old
Saybrook records tell a sad tale of Jeremiah's
family. The baptismal records show the following:
Eliza baptized August 1 1802
Polly Baptized August 31, 1806
Sarah baptized April 3, 1810
William baptized November 10, 1799
William age 6 died October 22, 1805 of dysentery
William died age 3 weeks February 1807 of
convulsions
William baptized March 10, 1808
Jeremiah's first son William died at age 6 of
dysentery. Two years later his second son William
died after three weeks. A third son William is born
in 1808. This William creates a mystery for in
Jeremiah's small family plot in the Junction Cemetery
near the railroad station in Old Saybrook there is a
worn stone inscribed "William died February,
1808 aged 8." The mystery deepens when we
realise that our ancestor, William John Lord, son of
Jeremiah, was born in Old Saybrook May 13, 1814.
If William 3 died in 1807 it is easy to understand
William 4 being born and baptized a year later in
1808, but what of the stone marking the death of
William in 1808 at age 8. And where is recorded the
birth and baptism of William John Lord in 1814? The
evidence suggests several of Jeremiah's died at an
early age until finally one survived.
The small Lord plot in the Junction Cemetery is
the earliest physical evidence of the Lord family
line. Jeremiah and Polly are here as are several of
their children. Polly H. Lord died June 12, 1876 aged
69 having been born in 1797. Was it she who was
baptized in 1806 when she was 9 years old?
Jeremiah's stone has a lovely verse now dimmed by
time. The presently legible part of the verse reads
"Till the last trumpets joyful sound/shall call
them to the sky". I have tried to decipher the
two lines that come before these but with only
partial success. I do remember seeing somewhere
amongst some old family stuff the complete verse that
someone like Aunt Isabel had copied from the stone.
Let's look for it.
Other stones in the plot are marked as follows:
William Lord, son of Jeremiah and Polly d. 22
Oct 1806 age 6 years
William Lord 2nd son of Jeremiah and Polly d. 1
Feb age 3 weeks
John died .......1810 age 6 years
Sally H. Lord died Feb. 15 1876 aged 66
Polly H. Lord died June 12 1876 aged 69
Were Sally and Polly two unmarried daughters who
died within 4 months of each other? And what of John
who died when he as 6 years old? Or was he another
William John Lord?
Jeremiah's family seems a tangled web of changing
names, and early deaths. Perhaps we can unravel the
mystery with some deeper digging into the records.